Tuesday, June 18, 2024

Life in Legos: A Day in the Shoes of a Trans, Neurodivergent Individual


Intro

Ever wonder what it's like to see your feelings come to life? Imagine building your thoughts out of Legos, each piece representing a different emotion. For one trans, neurodivergent individual, this is his reality. Join us on a journey through a day in his shoes, as he navigates the challenges of being different in a world that often doesn't understand. (aka me)

The Lego Build of Emotions

So, this guy's got a pretty unique way of dealing with his feels - through Legos. Yeah, you heard that right. Instead of just feeling stuff inside, he's out there building his emotions brick by brick. It's like each color and shape picks up on something different he's feeling - joy, anger, anxiety, you name it. Imagine having your brain's messy tangle of vibes turn into something you can actually see and tweak with your hands. Pretty rad, right? He gets to look at these Lego creations and kinda decode himself, figuring out what's ticking him off or making him buzz with happiness. It's not just about slapping bricks together; it's about seeing his feelings stand tall in front of him, giving him a whole new way to get what's going on inside his head. And that, my friends, is a game-changer for anyone, especially if you're navigating the world with a mind that doesn't always wanna play by the usual rules.

Five Feelings Take Form

Alright, let's dive into how our main dude tackles the big five - those feels that hit him the hardest. It's like he's a master Lego builder, but for his emotions. First up, he's stacking those bricks for anxiety - it's a shaky, kinda wobbly tower, always looking like it's about to topple. Next, he's got this bright, kinda aggressive red structure for anger. It's all sharp edges and looks like it could cut.

Then there’s sadness, right? This one's all blues and greys, spreading out more than going up, kinda like it's heavy and dragging him down. Joy comes in super vibrant, a mix of every color you can think of, reaching up like it's trying to touch the sky. And lastly, there’s this complex, multicolored maze for confusion - it's all over the place, but somehow, it makes sense to him.

As he builds, these feelings ain't just blocks anymore - they're his buddies for the day, chatting him up and giving advice. It's a wild ride, for sure, but having these tangible Lego pals kinda makes the rollercoaster of emotions a bit more manageable. And yeah, it might look a bit out there to folks passing by, but for him, it's just another way to get through the day, one brick at a time.

Navigating the Day-to-Day

Navigating the Day-to-Day

So, our Lego-loving dude steps out into the world, his brick-built emotions tagging along. It's kinda like having the most colorful squad, but only he gets the full picture. While he's out there, living his best life, throwing smiles at his Lego friends, not everyone's getting the vibe. Some folks give him the side-eye, whispering behind hands, 'cause all they see is a guy chatting up his colorful blocks. They don't get the convo, the connection between him and his emotions-made-visible. But here's the thing, he doesn't let those raised eyebrows and hushed tones stop his stride. Nope, he keeps on, turning those whispers into background noise. Because, at the end of the day, those Lego emotions? They're more than just playthings. They're his way of making sense of a world that often feels like it's spinning off its axis. And if that means getting a few weird looks while he's at it, then so be it. It's all about embracing that unique inner world, making it through the day with a bit of creativity and a lot of Lego magic.

The Beauty of Being Different

Being unique? It's like having your own secret superpower, seriously. Our Lego wizard here, with his colorful crew of brick emotions, is rocking his own vibe in a world that often tries to fit everyone into the same old, boring mold. His neurodivergent mind? It's a kaleidoscope, seeing patterns, colors, and possibilities where others see just chaos. And embracing his trans identity? That's his badge of honor, showing the courage it takes to be unapocalyptically you in a world that can be a tad too judgy. This whole Lego emotion thing isn't just about coping; it's about thriving by turning what makes you "different" into your strongest asset. It's about showing that what's inside you is too big, too vibrant, and too darn important to be ignored or shoved down. So, yeah, being different isn't just beautiful—it's downright revolutionary. And our main dude? He's leading the charge, one Lego brick at a time, proving that the things that make us unique are the very things that can make us unstoppable.

A Message of Hope and Understanding

So here's the deal - this story ain’t just a cool tale about a dude and his Lego feels. It’s kinda like a lighthouse shining a beam on the rough seas neurodivergent and trans peeps navigate daily. Look, life throws curveballs, and for some, those balls come in fast, dipped in judgment and misunderstanding. But here’s a slice of hope - by walking a mile in our Lego dude’s shoes, maybe, just maybe, folks can start getting it. Understanding and empathy, they’re the keys to changing the game. We’re all rocking our own battles, facing down our own towers of anxiety or mazes of confusion. So next time you see someone talking to their colorful Lego squad, remember, it’s their way of handling the world. And that’s pretty awesome. It's about taking a step back and thinking, “Hey, we’re all a bit different, and that’s not just okay; it’s freakin’ beautiful.” Let's use stories like these to bridge gaps, to see the world through someone else's Lego goggles. It's all about spreading a bit more kindness, one brick at a time.


MORE INFO: 

People with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dysphasia, synesthesia, and other neurological differences can be overlooked by the traditional hiring process.

a book on embracing neurodivergent people


The LEGO Group, LEGO House, and the LEGO Foundation announced a range of long-term initiatives designed to support and celebrate neurodivergent children and adults.

The Lego group


Unsupportive family environments and conversion therapy increase the risk of suicide for transgender individuals.

Risk of suicide for trans people


Different perspectives spark new ideas and foster creative thinking.

How diversity impacts your life


LEGO Group has announced a series of measures to support autistic and neurodivergent individuals in their brick-and-mortar stores.

Support autistic and neurodivergent indeviduals (LEGO group)

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