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                                                               JOIN TOBEFREE      In recent years, the LGBTQ community has made significant strides towards equality and acceptance. However, despite these advancements, there are still pockets of division and segregation within the community itself. While we may present a united front to the outside world, the reality is that issues such as race, gender identity, and socio-economic status can create rifts within our community. One of the most glaring examples of segregation within the LGBTQ community is the divide between cisgender gay men and transgender individuals. This division has been brought to light in recent years by the controversy surrounding the exclusion of transgender individuals in certain LGBTQ spaces and events. Many argue that this exclusion is a f...

What Living in Your Past Does to You: How to Overcome Your Past As human beings, we often find ourselves caught in the web of time. While the present is where life is lived, many of us inevitably tether ourselves to the shadows of our past. Whether it's a beautiful memory that brings warmth to our hearts or a painful regret that weighs us down, our history can shape us in profound ways. But what does living in your past really do to you, and how can we liberate ourselves from its grip? The Weight of Regret Living in the past often manifests itself in the form of regret. This sentiment can cling to us like an unwelcome guest, fostering feelings of inadequacy and hopelessness. When we focus on what we could have done differently, we risk poisoning our present moments with bitterness. Regret can lead to chronic dissatisfaction, isolating us from the joys that our current lives have to offer.  Moreover, dwelling on past mistakes can stifle our personal growth. When we are preoccupied w...

Trans* individuals face a myriad of challenges in their everyday lives, including navigating social settings where they may not feel accepted or understood. One particular area of concern for many trans* individuals is the process of transitioning in a natural or authentic way. The concept of natural transitioning refers to the idea of transitioning without the use of medical interventions, such as hormone therapy or surgery. Instead, individuals may choose to transition socially or through changes in appearance and presentation. While natural transitioning may work for some individuals, it is not always a feasible or safe option for all trans* individuals. There are a variety of factors that can impact an individual's ability to transition naturally, including financial limitations, access to healthcare, personal beliefs and preferences, and societal pressures. For many trans* individuals, medical interventions such as hormone therapy and surgery are essential comp...

 This is a deeply philosophical and theological question, and responses can vary greatly depending on individual beliefs and religious interpretations. Being a transgender individual and having strong religious beliefs can sometimes feel like navigating a complex and challenging terrain. The intersection of gender identity and faith can often raise questions and doubts within oneself, especially when it comes to how one's identity aligns with their religious beliefs. One common question that may arise for transgender individuals who are religious is whether they are calling God a liar by embracing their gender identity. For many transgender individuals, coming to terms with their identity is a deeply personal and spiritual journey. It can be a process of self-discovery and acceptance that may bring about conflicting feelings when it comes to religious beliefs. Some religious teachings may not be accepting of transgender identities, which can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and co...

Trans* individuals face unique challenges in society, including discrimination, violence, and lack of understanding from their peers and family members. One particular aspect of being transgender that can be especially difficult is how family members, particularly siblings, react and adjust to their loved one coming out as transgender. For many individuals, discovering that their sibling is transgender can be a shock. They may have grown up with their sibling and viewed them a certain way for their entire lives, only to learn that their sibling identifies as a different gender than what they were assigned at birth. This revelation can be difficult for some individuals to process, as it challenges their preconceived notions of gender and identity. It is important for individuals to approach their trans siblings with compassion, understanding, and an open mind. It is crucial to remember that being trans* is not a choice , but rather a deeply ingrained aspect of a person's identity. ...